It is odd, that in a 3D virtual world where you can pretty much do anything, that people still want to have a relationship with another person.  Think about it.  You can just go out and have sex with as many people as you want.  There no VD, AIDs, or anything to be worried about.  It is all in a virtual world.  There are plenty of those people out there.  But then, there are a lot more people who are in an RLC relationship.  I am one of those people.  I have an RLC girlfriend, who is a great girl.  But, it is in RLC only.  She has a Real Life relationship, so her and I will not be anything in Real Life, and I am fine with all that. 

Why is that?  I suppose you could really get into the psyche of the brain, but I think it boils down to one thing.  Human nature.  I enjoy having a girlfriend in RLC.  Even though we have not seen a lot of each other, we miss each other just the same.   I still have other female friends, and we have a great time.  We are both faithful to each other, and are completely honest with each other.  Just like it should be in real life.

The person who is coming to visit me is NOT my RLC girlfriend, and they know about each other.  It is an odd situation.  I would never have a relationship in RL and then have someone else come out and visit me.  But, you just have to keep in mind, that my RLC relationship is only in RLC.  This is just the tip of the iceberg of my relationships in RLC.  Unfortunately, I am not going into details on my relationships, because I think I would like to keep the rest of it private.

This post is not really about me anyway.  It is about relationships in general.  There are plenty of people either engaged, or married in RLC.  That is hard for me to wrap my head around with some people.  I know that there are married RLC couples in here, some to each other in RL, but that is not always the case.  I have seen married RLC couples where either one or both are married in RL to someone else.  Sometimes their RL spouse does not even know they are in RLC.  In my humble opinion, that is a bad sign, a sign of an unhappy marriage in RL.

I am single, and if I were in a RL relationship, I would NOT be married in RLC, in fact, I may not even be in RLC.  I simply don't see the point, unless I were unhappy, or we were both in RLC as a couple, mimicking RL.  I would assume that the people who are married in RL are in RLC as an escape.  I fully understand that part.  All I ask is that those people who are in here to escape reality, remember, you still need to deal with reality.  Escape does not mean that the reality goes away.

I know a lot of people, like myself, who are completely happy with having a girlfriend/boyfriend in RLC, and not having it go any further.  I also have some friends who do not believe in being tied down to one person in RLC.  I completely get that point of view, too.  RLC is what you make of it.  I am in RLC to find some friends and meet then in RL.  I kind of use RLC as a dating site, because I have had no real luck with conventional dating sites.  I have tried too many of them, and have had much better success at actually getting to know, and meeting, women in RLC.  Some people call RLC a game.  Those people are completely different in RLC, and that is a topic for a different post.

I have enjoyed the times I have had in RLC, ok, 97% of the time.  I have had some rough or odd times in there, but mostly, there are great people in there.  I have made many lifelong friends, even a twin sister.  My twin maybe be Asian and 2 years younger than me, but she is my twin!  I don't care what the genetics say!

I would love to hear your opinions and/or experiences about RLC relationships.  Please post comments on this post.  You do not have to join the site, or create any profile.  It is suggested that you use your RLC member name, and you don't have to enter an e-mail address.

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