I have been a little busy in RL.  I won't be able to post every day anymore.  But I will be able to post more during the week. 

But, let's get on to the subject at hand, sex.  More specifically RLC sex.  When you first become a VIP, you just have to try it out.  Most, if not all, people do.  It is why most people join RLC.  And now, they have added more sex, stand-up sex!  WOW, that is so cool.  I highly suggest you try it.

Sex is fun in RLC.  But it is different for everyone.  Some people are just horndogs and will have sex with all their friends, and any bystander that is interested to join.  I would say that there is a large number of men in that category, and more women than most would think.  I have met a few female horndogs, and I am friends with one or two :).  I was also a horndog at one point, but I have calmed down.  I still enjoy the sex in RLC, but I also enjoy the conversations I have with my friends.

It is interesting because some of the people I consider good friends, I have had sex with.  Mostly it was to see what the new moves were, or to see what stand-up sex in the street was like :).  Oh, yes, you CAN have standup sex just about everywhere you can be naked.  I do try to do the more special experiences reserved for that special lady.  Right now I don't have anyone special, so I am not saving anything for anyone :).

To me the more intimate thing to do is slow dancing.  I am pretty particular with whom I slow dance.  That is something that has more of a connection.  Even though it is just two avatars on a screen, there is still some sort of connection there.  It is nice to slow dance, and have a pleasant PM going.  Last night I slow danced with a very good friend of mine for about 2 hours.  Her and I have something very special between us, it will never go any further than what we have, and that is fine with us :).  We only see each other 1 or 2 times a week, so we usually make the best of it.  And, yes, she is one of the friends I would have sex with :).

Sorry, Got off topic a bit.  LOL.  Back to sex.  Some people just use the sex in RLC as interactive porn.  They enjoy being able to control the avatars, and get off on the feedback of a partner.  Since that partner is a real person, there is a different feel than just watching porn.  To others, it has a much deeper meaning.  It is a real connection with that other person.  They are thinking 'wow, they would really have sex with me in RL'.  Well, that may NOT be true.  I know there are women I have had RLC sex with that would not do it in RL.

To me, the RLC sex can go either way.  At times, I am the horndog.  But a majority of the time, I want that real connection.  I enjoy it better knowing that the woman behind the avatar would actually have sex with me in RL.  And if she were in my area, we would not be in RLC, but naked, sweaty, and breathing heavy for real.  I do know that many of the women I have been with would have sex with me in RL.  The problem is that there are usually extenuating circumstances.  Mostly it is distance and/or a RL relationship they have.  I have been starting to be more aware of their RL relationships, and trying to be with more single women.  That way... maybe there will be more than RLC in our future.  Could just be some rolls in the hay, or more.  I won't complain, either way.  LOL

I enjoy the RLC sex, sometimes more than others.  Mostly, I enjoy the connection between me and the lady I am with.  I am not the kind of guy that can have a quickie in RLC.  Well, with the stand-up sex, maybe I can.  LOL.  I enjoy taking my time, and making sure she cums as much as possible :).  The more she cums, the more turned on I get.

You know what it is to me, what is RLC sex to you?  Tell me, I want to know!  Here is what I want to hear from you.  I want you to leave me a comment on this post.  Let people know what sex is to you in RLC.  You can post anonymously, or not.  You don't have to leave your e-mail address, or join the site.  I am interested in what you have to say.

Thanks for listening to my Ramblings!
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PS: I came up with the title of this article about a week ago, and a song has been going through my head... Let's Talk about sex, baby... let's talk about you and me... let's talk about all the ways (that is where I get stuck.. I forget the words!  LOL)